Five years back, I would have been okay  with standing in long queues, going up to the counter where the store  clerk would ignore you, take your money and give you what you wanted as  if he is doing me a big favor and would never have expected a smile,  sorry or thank you. But I have experienced customer service since then  and understood the importance of it in my profession too. Following are  some things that I have learned:- 
1.      Attitude 75%, aptitude 25%  
o       Attitude towards work and  attitude towards customer is almost the same thing – your customer is  your work or vice versa. I have seen bit of both types of people –  brilliant technically, but customer not happy at the end of the day or  very good communication skills and can establish rapport quickly, but  shallow when it comes to knowledge and hence not successful in  execution. Both attitude and aptitude are natural things, but could  improve by practice too. 
2.      Customer is never wrong 
o       I have seen people arguing with the  customer on why he is wrong or why something is impossible to achieve.  Your job should be to tell the customer what is possible within the  timeframe and cost and why. Instead of discarding something as  impossible, it should be broken up and explained as to why it is not  possible, which part maybe possible (the complete thing maybe  impossible, but parts of it maybe possible). We need to understand the  fundamental objective and find ways to achieve that. 
o       Also, it depends on how you tell it.  Even if customer is wrong, for all involved the best outcome is customer  coming to the right solution through your guidance. We tend to lose  focus on the simple thing that we win only when customer wins because of  our ego. 
3.      Listen first, be responsive, be attentive, be available
o       One example from my experience:- It was  comparison between product from a major corporation which is already  doing business with us in some other space and another new one which was  eager to sell. First proposal from the major player was anchored by  just one person who came to the requirements review meeting with printed  documents which was sent earlier without even reading it once. He kept  saying that everything we asked for is included, but didn’t have enough  detail on how those could be accomplished, gave vague answers and for  specific questions sent via email there was no follow up. Second group  had read every document that was sent, had very specific questions which  showed that they had read every sentence and had a clear idea how to  accomplish those and the meeting was very productive. It just showed  that they cared. They followed up on every question that was sent to  them to the very last detail and even anticipated the concerns behind  the questions and provided answers for those. I got to know later that  their sales process was tuned such a way that they were instructed to  listen to the customer first rather than go into a “sell sell sell”  mode. 
o       Moral of the story is this:-  it is not enough that you have a good quality product. You need to  listen to the customers, need to be responsive, need to prepare well and  show empathy to solve customer’s problem. 
o       Respond to the customer queries as soon  as you can, be sure to return their voice mails and be around when they  need you. Ever had the experience to be in front of a store clerk who  is attending phone calls always and giving answers to someone else  rather than attending to those who took the pain to come to the store?  Ever had the experience of served by someone who seem to be interested  in TV or talking to their friends or just plain looking bored? As it  says “They will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you  made them feel”.
o       Often I have seen people  totally ignoring what the customer is “trying” to say and stubbornly  trying to answer something which is not completely satisfying the  customer. It is either lack of compassion to listen, afraid to give  direct answer to a direct question and instead deflect it by a fuzzy  answer or plain lack of comprehension. 
o       According to an article from Harvard  Business Review, Level 5 leadership means a “deep personal humility  combined with intense professional will”. I think it is applicable for a  good customer service too. There should courtesy, combined with a  determination to get customer requirement satisfied in the best possible  way. 
4.      Put customer first
o       Given any situation, deciding what is  best for customer should be a natural decision benefiting customer  first.
o       Customer takes priority –  always. If that thumb rule is set, daily prioritizations will be easy. 
o       Better yet, evaluate how the activity  you are doing is helping customer, that guides you how best to do it. 
5.      Take care of customer's  problem completely. Give complete solutions. 
o       I have read somewhere that your most  loyal customers are not the ones who had a flawless experience, but the  ones who had a problem that was resolved. I have experienced this while  working in application support. Customers will appreciate if their  burning problems, the ones causing them much pain and manual work, are  solved quickly, completely and gracefully. 
o       Solving customer’s problems shouldn’t  be by putting customers through more trouble. I have experienced cases  where customer service is not reachable by phone or one line email  replies for a full page concern or where you had to ask the same  question multiple times worded differently each time. 
6.      Never burn a customer bridge:-  
o       Need to add this here even if it is  another end of spectrum and no doubt it will come up in daily life.  There may come a time when you have to be strict to the customer or say  no or defend your position or your employees or your product. There may  be times when you have to let go of the customer, but as it says "Never  burn a customer bridge, unless you have to. If you have to, you are more  screwed up than you realize". At times it may be simpler to admit the  fault and fix the problem. At any rate, don’t ignore the problem,  address it completely and give the solution that will keep the customer  satisfied.  
7.      Deliver consistent quality. Deliver on  promises. Trust comes from doing this. 
o       I have read somewhere that long term  relationship takes longest time to build. It takes consistent quality  deliveries, consistent delivery on promises to build the trust. You  could reach a level where there is complete trust from the customer for  your word if you say you will deliver something. One another quote:- “If  they like you and they believe you and they trust you and they have  confidence in you, then they may buy from you.”. 
8.      Be credible. Be knowledgeable.  Be accurate and correct. Know what you’re talking about. Prepare. 
o       It is very easy to know when someone is  talking about something which he doesn’t know exactly. Homework is the  key. Prepare before any meeting with customer, be ready with the data  customer might want, if you don’t know the answer find out and get back  promptly, ask yourself the questions customer might ask and find out the  answer before you go to him. Do not answer if you don’t know, the  credibility once lost is not easy to regain.
9.      Take the extra step, go from  implementer to trusted advisor 
o       Be helpful to the customer even if  there is no immediate profit in it. I would remember the occasion when  the sales associate walked me to the aisle, pointed to the product and  inquired whether that is what I wanted rather than giving me a vague  direction and at the same time want to run away from me. 
o       Better yet, anticipate customer  problems and suggest to solving them. This is what takes the  relationship from transactional to strategic. All the above ensure that  you have customers business and in all likelihood will come to you  tomorrow. But when you anticipate customers problems, that means that  you have on your time been thinking about what customers wants without a  stated need. That enables customers to trust you when they know that  you have their concern at the top of your mind and heart and that trust  makes you privy to information that nobody else has, which is what makes  the relationship strategic.
o       Understand the tactical gain and the  strategic gain – Assess if the forsaking tactical gain will lead to  significant strategic gain.
10.  Understand customers personal goals, help them  achieve it – 
o       Beyond the stated needs,  understand what are customer’s goals? What is customer's ambition? And  align your objectives and goals to achieving that. There are  “Program/Company Goals”, “Your goals”, “Your Company’s goals” and  “Customer as an individual’s goal. All strong, multi year relationships  have been built when you achieve all.
 
