morning after


When energy / enthusiasm / dopamine level is high, don’t shoot off what comes to top of your mind. It could look silly or naïve.
When disappointment literally hurts, hold on again. Otherwise it could look whiny.
In both cases realization comes only the next day morning. And “recall message” doesn’t really work.
In both cases though the message could be truer to you, since it was raw emotion, just could be too much to handle at receiving end.
Maturity comes when you can sleep it off, take the edge off emotions.
Then it could get boring too. But that is the balance needed in life.

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